I had spent 3 months to feel heartbroken for my girlfriend, and I'm glad to get it off my chest finally after I repeatedly considering to write about it, or not.

So they met each other years ago. Been together for 7 years. Broke up months ago.

The girl has been working out a business, when she is funding to expand her business, the boyfriend decided to invest and naturally, he gets a half of the share. In between, they cohabiting, work out for the business together. Truthfully speaking, the girl herself has a clear vision for their future, planning for it, and work for it, endlessly. The boyfriend? I am nobody to comment as I knew him as the girlfriend's boyfriend, I have nothing to tell about him.

Our mutual friends urged her to fight for her rights. My suggestion to her was to have a partnership and build another empire on her own. She is heartbroken, life seems meaningless and she has no strength to fight anymore. She left the company empty handed. From my own eyes, from what I seen, I doubtful when the boyfriend defended that he ditches the relationship for nobody, then who's the new girl with you?

My girlfriend asked me if my boyfriend yelled into my face, telling me I'm a disappointment to him, how would I feel?

I'll get angry and give him the ultimate turning flying kick with a taste of big fat slap on his face, make sure he'll cry for help. Nay, nothing of these happened before. I meant the flying kick, slapping and crying of help. So anyways.

Been through ups and downs, quite a life experience to grow up together, set a life mission and future vision for our relationship. We are different in freaking many ways but I do believe, when time passes, we able to figure a way out for the differences. If cockroaches challenge my dignity, please throw it out from our house.

One thing for sure, I say what I really meant. There's one phase in our relationship where I have conflicts with him, specifically the people in his life. A lot of time, hate arises from misunderstanding and inconsideration. To help myself to cope with the frustration, I constantly keep everything inside, until I couldn't take it, I speak out with honesty, like brutally honest. I'm not regret of every bit of it, because, man, reality is cruel, somebody needs to get the facts right. Ya'll must give me credits for that, because if I don't, he won't be able to know it.

Telling me I'm a disappointment, it's an understatement, dude. Give me other labels too. Failure? Hopeless? Cruel? Heartless? Self-centered? Bossy? Stubborn? Masculine? What else? Give me more. After all these years, from the bottom of life and we rose together, and now you're telling I'm a disappointment. What a way to break someone into pieces.

From my point of view, whatever skills I have, I gained and earned it without him, he has nothing directly involved, including the networking I've built and the people I knew in life. He wants to known famously as "the guy", I helped him in so many ways. Truthfully speaking, if he think his personalities play a big part, I'll like to see it happens. Anyhow, I'm such a disappointment to him.

One thing about egoistic person is, overly estimated the importance of himself. Being grateful is never a common practice in life. Ask your innerself. Are you who you are today without the existence of your other half? The essentials in a relationship are nothing less than:

1. Mutual respect, appreciation and understanding
2. Friends and family who are at least decent human beings
3. Similar ideas about future planning and money
4. Honesty and spurn insecurities.
5. Know who you are. Know who you are. Know who you are.

Sorry to say that it's extremely distasteful when somebody tells you to slow down, stop being an outstanding ones, because you're outshining the guy standing next to you. Either your partner man up, or you go for a better ones. Somebody that deserve the good sides of you. I've been trying to motivate my girlfriend, the world is such a wonderful place to explore, this is just a phase that she needs to go through, it's not end of the world, girls!

I shared my thoughts with a male friend. After listening to my many points of view in this matter, he shared his thoughts. A man should have the strength to overcome the frustration and never hold grudges, otherwise, everything will fall apart. Women are different. They are constantly feeling insecure, regardless you're a grade A lady or grade C lady, the feeling of insecurity come naturally. Women are sensitive in many ways, but never overlook the good sides of their ignorance. They accept your belly and probably your dandruff over the pillow. Or the moment when you remove your denture, or when you're attacked by Hypoglycaemia.

Women and men are made that way. Women can choose a life where she has a man who devoted his entire life, and women's pain tolerance in birth giving is the 'entitlement'. Even if many women aren't mothers, they are taking care of a big boy, some of the big boys even come in a combo non-economical package, the whole family branches from a different tree.

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Some human are lack of common sense.

Change sides now. Men can choose which woman he's marrying to. If the woman come in a non-economical package, you can cut it off what. I'm not a Feminist, honestly speaking. Women shall be able to take care of themselves, don't rely on your other half 300%. You'll lose your self value, and the unhealthy cycle starts again. I don't believe the man should be the sole breadwinner, but if a man can't bear the household, then don't get married at all. No marriage, no burden, no kids, zero commitment. Better save what's left and build a decent life for your own. Same goes to the women, if you can't find a decent partner, be a non-married and be happy for it.

Most importantly, who told you that you're a disappointment, ditch it. Find something that you're passionate with and live your life like a rockstar.






Japan 2014 Jack of all trades, master of none. A true believer of "Follow Your Passion", passionate in cars, technology, cooking, travel and designs; A hopeless romantic, I "awww" audibly for chessy lovey-dovey scenes; A frequent visitors to Disneyland and love almost everything about Disney. Own seven furkids and occasionally involve in stray rescue (if time permitted). Search @roslynkong and #RFTtravelogue in Instagram to know more about me.  For blog collaboration, email me at kongroslyn@gmail.com
It's been four years since her "Myself" World Tour Live 2012 in Malaysia. I first heard Jolin's song back in 2006 when "Mr Q" released. The Pop Queen has won many other young fans all over the world with her talents in dancing, music producing and of course, her sweet and humble personalities.

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia is not only marks the final stop for her "我呸我PLAY! World Tour", in fact, also the first outdoor performance of the entirety of the PLAY World Tour.

It's been awhile.

Bumped into few friends and we all are excited about this 'blast for the past'. We are so ready to sing along, although we all have different seating, but nothing gonna stop us from enjoying the show, haha!

Heavy downpour since the evening, but guess what?

A sea of pink.

With over 11,000 fans, armed with "PLAY" glow sticks flooded into the stadium! Everyone was anticipating for Jolin. When the show opened, Diva Jolin appeared on stage adorned with a magnificent Medusa-inspired headpiece, the crowd went wild!

Medusa-Inspired

During the third number, she had a big stumble due to the slippery floor after a downpour. I was expecting she might stop the show awhile, but in spite of that, she stood up immediately, cracked a smile and continued on unfazed. I wasn't expecting anything serious caused by the stumble, but it was over the local news in Taiwan the next day. She had bruises over her arms and sprained her ankles. Her fans was amazed with her pain tolerance, her explanation was she was moved with her fans in Kuala Lumpur and enjoyed herself to the max during the tour, the pain didn't bothering her at all!

The Diva.

I felt a rush of nostalgia when she sings “天空”,“看我72变”,“爱情36计”,“布拉格广场” 。To me, the highlight of the night was when she surprise her fans with an amazing love song - “小情歌” orginally by Sodagreen, another talented Taiwanese band.

The ever-professional and talented Chinese pop invasion.

Jolin Tsai also made the graceful gesture of thanking her musicians, backup singers, and dancers. As she introduced us to the dance team, she passed the mic to Travis Payne and Stacey Walker, giving them the opportunity to greet and thank the crowd personally. She also shared her appreciation towards her fans who waited her at the hotel, introduced the local delicacies that made her fall in love to.

Sentimental songs coming your way.

Jolin continues awestruck her audience with her incredible vocal and energetic dance moves. She is indeed a superb lady continuously improving herself in many fields, mainly in singing and fashion, on top of that, she is a talented baker too! She's not only managing her career well, her love life is nothing less than that. Jolin's boyfriend, Vivian Dawson, or famously known as 锦荣, was reported that he was in Kuala Lumpur with the touring team! Aww, what a lovey-dovey couple! They have been together for 6 years, initially when the news broke, many were unpleasant with it. But hey, 6 years already, people are getting stronger together! 

The Doll-alike Jolin.

Jolin Tsai concludes her final stop of Play World Tour with her hit song “PLAY我呸PLAY”。Jolin Tsai has definitely delivered an awesome and eye-opening performance to all her fans, I'm glad that I was there, thanks IMC Live Group for giving me the opportunity.


Jolin Tsai’s concert in Malaysia is also supported by Malaysia Major Events, a division of Malaysia Convention and Exhibition Bureau (MyCEB), an agency under the Ministry of Tourism and Culture Malaysia.



Japan 2014 Jack of all trades, master of none. A true believer of "Follow Your Passion", passionate in cars, technology, cooking, travel and designs; A hopeless romantic, I "awww" audibly for chessy lovey-dovey scenes; A frequent visitors to Disneyland and love almost everything about Disney. Own seven furkids and occasionally involve in stray rescue (if time permitted). Search @roslynkong and #RFTtravelogue in Instagram to know more about me.  For blog collaboration, email me at kongroslyn@gmail.com